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Personal History
A Brief
Autobiographical Sketch Of
My Life Experiences
By Dianne Ruth,
CCH, PhD
Beginnings...
I was born and raised in Michigan.
My birthday is April 28. At age four-and-a-half I was adopted and
brought up as an only child. I grew up outside a small resort town
called Lake Orion (pronounced Lake Or´re-en by the locals). It is
about 40 miles north of Detroit.
Throughout my
childhood, I learned to play the piano and flute. (Later in life, I learned
to play the
drums when I was much older--mainly because my mother wouldn't let me when I
was young. She believed it wasn't lady-like.)
I had lessons in fencing, tap dancing, modern dancing, ballet,
ballroom dancing and singing. (After two years of attempted singing
lessons, my teacher gave up on me because I couldn't carry a tune!) I was trained
by John Robert Powers Modeling Agency and preformed as a child model.
Surrounded by private lakes and wild game preserves, I
evolved self-reliance and a sensitivity to my environment.
This set the
stage for my love of witnessing the natural balance of ecology as it exists
on the planet. My
foremost companions were my horses, dogs, cats, and other small
creatures.
Often alone, my activities frequently consisted of wildlife
and nature studies, exploring the countryside, climbing trees and camping.
My mother would occasionally go hiking
with me and teach me the names of all the trees and plants, and which
wild
berries were safe to eat.
For my 12th birthday, my dad gave me a .22
rifle along with intensive safety and operations training. He would then
take me hunting with him for small game--which would always end up on
the dinner table.
He also taught me how to catch and prepare fish for
our meals in the two-mile private lake that bordered our home.
My dad gave me professional driving
lessons at a tender young age. (Driver's training as a business
didn't exist yet in those days.) By the time I was 14, I got
my first driver's license.
In summer, I loved playing golf, tennis, badminton, field
hockey and croquet. I often spent time boating, sailing, swimming,
hiking and English horseback riding. I loved riding my bike the three
miles into town to meet up with my friends.
Winter offered extra time for avid reading and
hours spent drawing. I especially liked ice skating, sledding,
tobogganing and building igloos as a youngster. Indoor activities were board
games, roller skating, bowling, and boxing lessons from my dad.
I was frequently rebellious. My mother called
me precocious. I often had my own creative agenda for what I wanted to do
that usually clashed with her wishes. My dad generally served as a
peace-maker between my mother and I.
Despite shyness and a somewhat secluded childhood, I
developed a sincere interest in people.
As a young adult...
During my mid-teens, I left home to establish my
independence. Because my business skills and work experience
were basically non-existent at that age, I supported myself with a variety of
odd jobs over the next two to three years.
Some of
my work experiences during that time consisted of mother's helper (now
called a nanny), housekeeper, maid (and yes, I wore a uniform),
stable-hand which, yes, included mucking out horse stalls, waitress
(now called a table server), drive-in carhop, short-order cook, auto paint
masker, counter clerk in a bakery
and a job in a
cleaners where I learned all about how to do professional ironing.
Additionally, I
worked as a retail salesclerk, phone solicitor (now called phone marketer), receptionist,
elevator operator (when they still had them--operators, that is), typist and general office clerk.
Field work consisted of selling institutional janitorial
supplies, art courses, residential remodeling, and printing.
My
employment history later included training in
career counseling and sales
training by the world famous Zig Ziglar.
I had mastered the ("old" clunky) manual typewriter,
which was state-of-the-art in those days, and traveled around the country
working as a temp for Manpower and Kelly Girls, living
in different cities and states for a few years. Some of them included
Philadelphia, Greenwich Village in New York City, Indianapolis, Gary,
Indiana and Chicago.
Continuing my vagabond existence, I returned to Detroit for a time. I eventually left again and moved to
Scottsdale, Arizona.
Later I landed in Denver.
My
employment included
sales
training by the world famous Zig Ziglar. I also gained experience
in
career counseling.
Next I went to Fort
Worth/Dallas, and on to San Diego. With poor economy and no jobs there at the
time, I relocated first to Anaheim, then Ontario, and finally Los Angeles where I spent the next 23
years.
Working in Los Angeles...
While in Los Angeles, I continued to
refine my creativity and working skills until, over nearly a 20-year
period, I made my mark in the graphic communications industry.
The only way to learn this field was through on-the-job
training in those days.
Having been additionally trained and experienced
as an Efficiency Expert, I was able to use these skills throughout my
business, professional and personal life.
I often reorganized offices and schedules to maximize efficiency in
company departments.
I was an artist, illustrator and art director. I designed logos, business cards, brochures, product labels, continuous forms, advertising and marketing layouts,
copywriting and copy editing for books and other publications. I was
also named as being listed as among the top ten graphic designers in the country by
Advertising Age.
In addition, I worked as a cameraman, film stripper, and plate-maker. I also did backup
in a large variety of bindery tasks. I became a journeyman
typographer. Near the end of my career in the graphics industry, I
gained proficiency on the first computerized typesetter.
Throughout my career, I became
highly knowledgeable in publishing, business sales promotion,
marketing, merchandising, advertising, public relations and
publicity.
Other skills I developed
a little later on included
precious jewelry design,
lost wax casting gold, fabrication, setting gemstones, repair, and jewelry appraisals.
For about a year, I did cost
estimates and sales in home remodeling and room additions.
Professional volunteer activities...
Outside
volunteer activities involved appointments and elections to
governing posts in several nationally recognized business,
professional, and community organizations. I was on the Board of Directors
for
Los Angeles Advertising Women for two terms.
I joined the
American Red Cross as a volunteer
for 10 years. I earned certification in
twenty-four courses in Safety Services and Disaster
Preparedness, and several in Instructor's Training.
I taught classes in Advanced Emergency
First Aid and CPR to health care professionals, fire fighters and police
as well as to the community at large.
I helped write a manual for training
the trainers. I was also on the ARC Board of Directors as a medical advisor
and headed up several committees.
Additionally, I was a captain of the
Disaster Action Team (DAT). This involved being on call for assessing
damage by fire and and other disasters. I was also a shelter manager.
While volunteering at the ARC, I received extensive supervision and hands-on
experience in crisis counseling and casework for disaster victims. This was
the beginning of my counseling career and where I discovered my mission in
life was helping people.
Later I served as Vice-president for three
terms for the
Los
Angeles Academy of Clinical Hypnosis, a component of American Society of
Clinical Hypnosis. This organization is the largest U.S. organization for
health and mental health care professionals using clinical hypnosis.
I also served as Program
Vice-president for two terms in the Southern California Society of Clinical
Hypnosis, also a component of the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis. I
conducted hypnosis study groups for doctors and other medical and mental
health care professionals at the
UCLA Neuropsychiatric Institute.
Returning to college...
While attending Los Angeles City College
full time, I also attended East Los Angeles College during the
summer and became a certified
Emergency Medical Technician (EMT-1A). I spent weekends alternating
between working in hospital emergency rooms and riding/driving
ambulance with paramedic teams.
This interest led to professional training and licensing in a medical
model of massage therapy. The result was a
nine-year interim
career with a thriving private practice that catered to the "rich and
famous" in Hollywood/Beverly Hills and Greater Los Angeles upscale
neighborhoods.
This interim career supported me while
I attended
college full-time.
My initial
academic goal and training involved following a pre-med track with a view toward
becoming a chiropractic physician. Later, however, I elected to follow a
more comprehensive program, and proceeded to earn my
Doctor of
Philosophy in Clinical and Counseling Psychology degree.
I completed 13 years of academic
education in nine and a half years by attending school year-around and
carrying extra credits. (Having returned to school later in life, I
was in a hurry!)
Add another couple of years of clinical
internships to equal the equivalent of 15 years of training in psychology.
(An MD can be licensed in about 11 years.)
My years of living in anxiety hell...
Little did I know that my
fears and despondency, were actually going to continue getting worse
instead of better without the right kind of help! I lived in "anxiety
and depression hell" for 7 years so you don’t have to!
It began with the onset of freeway phobia. It then escalated into
generalized anxiety where I was continuously bombarded with waves of
unidentified fear.
From there it descended into an intense and debilitating state of panic
where I constantly lived in fear of having another panic attack. I also fell
into a pit of depression and despair.
Ultimately,
I became nearly housebound with not wanting to go out alone.
I was desperate to find relief from the
darkness of the emotional insanity I was struggling
with. At this time, anxiety had not been recognized as a medical
classification. No matter how many different doctors I saw, none of them
were able to help me. Mostly, they just labeled me as "hysterical."
Not one to give up, I began researching Holisticmethods of help. I
discovered a combination of emerging energy psychology techniques. These
included NLP, EFT and Hypnotherapy, among several other powerful modalities
that used Holisticapproaches to
healing anxiety and other related problems.
As a result of following up with these new avenues of therapy, I not only
healed myself, I became an expert through extensive and advanced training on the
many causes for the several
forms of anxiety and depression, and their cures.
My deep understanding of the emotional horror, anguish and despair that
goes along with the many different forms of feeling overwhelmed, come
from my own struggles and recovery, not just knowledge from a college
text book.
I learned how to help myself and decided
to devote my life to
helping others to recover forever! Here was another life curve that
ultimately sent me in a new direction.
Continuing my education...
Throughout my period of searching for help, I returned to school and
eventually earned
my
Doctor of Philosophy Degree in Clinical and Counseling Psychology.
I became a California State
registered
psychological assistant.
A First-Rate Education
from Regionally
Accredited and World Renowned Institutions
While fulfilling my 3,000 hours of supervised clinical experience, I built a
successful psychotherapy practice in a psychiatric clinic.
Drawing on
my earlier design skills, I created a
business card for my practice. On a whim, I entered my
business card design into a national competition held by The Practice
Builders.
Among the thousands of entries, my submission
was selected as among the few to be awarded "Honorable Mention."
After completing my supervised experience, I
chose to discontinue the practice of psychotherapy to concentrate on further
developing my skills with clinical and medical hypnotherapy to be used
within the realm of Life Coaching.
Professional Certifications
that Make the Difference!
During this period, I also sought advanced training in Neuro-Linguistic
Programming .
Plus, I studied and mastered several energy psychology systems
including Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Meditation,
Guided Imagery, Metaphor Therapy, Applied Kinesiology, Thought Field
Therapy, Advanced Hypnotherapy and more.
My desire was to
teach clients who were basically emotionally, psychologically, and mentally healthy,
how to achieve and enjoy more personal growth, greater inner peace and prosperity.
In addition, I
wanted to offer my experiences with healing anxiety and depression to others who suffered
from this affliction ... and other related issues.
Another move...
back to Denver...
After 23 years in California, I
made the decision to relocate back to the Denver metro area. I had been a
victim of the Northridge earthquake and decided to return to Denver
where the ground did not shake!
I enrolled and graduated from the
Institute
for Life Coach Training . I had been told that "therapists make
the best coaches."
My goal was to learn how to use some of the
communication techniques I had already mastered and add
a solid knowledge base of training in leading edge coaching
skills.
While enjoying
my 10 years of Colorado living, I continued to pursue more highly
specialized techniques and training in the art of communication mastery.
During that time, I also served as a
regular guest presenter on a weekly radio call-in talk show,
KLZ 560 AM. The themes centered around women's interests, issues
and concerns.
Later I opted
to return to the west coast where my heart resonated to the sounds of the
surf. I also wished to be closer to my family.
Returning to the home of my heart...
This final move back to San Diego was made
to fulfill my progressive visions of establishing and building A
Hypnotherapy and
Holistic Counseling Practice dedicated to helping others.
Where healing takes
place and dreams come true!
I wanted to specialize in Personal Growth, Anxiety
Care from the Doctor Who's Been There, and The Money Clinic™,
How to
Reconnect With Your Divine Birthright and Have Balance and
Abundance in Mind and Body Health, Wealth, Prosperity and
Spirituality.
Once again, I was blindsided by a new challenge...
A few years later, I was declared legally blind with rapid onset of
macular degeneration.
Once again I faced a major crisis in my life. No longer able to drive, I
looked out on a foggy and blurry world with a deep feeling of
hopelessness and loss.
With survival determination, I bounced back and reached out to the
Braille Institute. I signed up for several classes in independent living
and instructions in how to use a white cane.
[Note: Did you know
that only 5% to 10% of all legally blind people are completely without
any eyesight at all? The rest have varying degrees of impaired vision, and there
are many causes and different visual abilities.]
At the same time, I gradually created new ways to market my career as a
life coach and holistic counselor through offering sessions by phone
world-wide. I also reached out to a colleague who was a well-known
hypnotherapist and life coach from the Holistichealing community.
With her powerful state-of-the-art techniques (same ones I use in my
work) and gentle guidance, over the next several months, she was able to
help me achieve an unheard-of recovery from macular degeneration.
She was able to help me stop
the bleeding in my eyes,
restore enough of my failing eyesight to be able to drive again, and
function at a near normal level. (I have had to wear glasses all my
life, so recovery meant an improvement close to my original level of
vision.)
Once again, from another life
curve involving a different situation with anxiety and depression, I
persevered,
conquered and triumphed.
Since then, much of my time
has been spent as a volunteer class instructor at the Braille Institute.
"Paying it
Forward" through Serving as a Braille Institute Volunteer Instructor for
Blind and Disabled Students
I
have helped blind,
visually impaired and disabled people have a better quality of life
through learning self-help methods for enhanced emotional health. I have called
this my “pay-it-forward” labor of love.
My
personal interests include...
In my spare time, I love exploring the
mountains and countryside and all kinds of travel. I have continued my
passion for reading.
My interests range from popular novels, metaphysics, historical
fiction, science fantasy and educational books.
In addition, I
have been having fun learning digital photography. Beginner's luck had
brought me a few notable awards from the Denver Photographic Society for
some of my work.
Going to funky
restaurants with gourmet food, coffee houses with live music, playing
Scrabble, social events, and doing volunteer work, are other
pastimes I really enjoy.
I am now retired from the San Diego Police Department.
After graduating from the Police Academy I became
a volunteer member of the
Crisis Intervention Team.
I have served as an active volunteer with my local
Neighborhood Watch Program. I have offered stress management
presentations and training for learning how to effectively and appropriately
respond during potentially life-threatening situations.
Examples include house fire, burglary in progress, injured child or other
and attack by
a mugger or rapist.
Highlight of a special
project...
I was involved as a
hypnosis consultant in the
making of a movie called,
Entrenched.
Entrenched is about two Special Forces Operation Delta Detachment
members who return home from a wartime massacre only to find a new enemy
more unrelenting than death that involved PTSD.
Passing time...
In my spare time, I especially
enjoy the company of intelligent, creative thinkers and planners,
inspirational people, those that are open-minded, can think outside-the-box
and love to engage in stimulating, outrageous, mind-blowing conversations.
So... give me a call and let's do some master-minding for fun!
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According to the
National Institute of Mental Health, psychotherapy only has a 20% success
rate.
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I have a 97%
success rate, and over 37+ years experience.
● THIS IS AN ALL INCLUSIVE
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I honor and respect your
race, religion, culture, sexual orientation and way of life including
senior citizens and those with disabilities.
I also welcome adults in
consensual, sane and safe, alternative sexual and other creative
lifestyle choices including those in the LGBTQ+ community.
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"I am dedicated to helping you
uncover a sense
of
accomplish-ment, self-discovery,
and personal excellence. To
do this, I use
gentle compassion, creativity, innovation, awareness, and
understanding."
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