Fun Stuff for Rapid Change!
Life Coaching & Holistic Counseling Magical Toolbox
FUN MIND GAMES
WITH NLP
 Reframing is a process of translating negative thought patterns into
positive ones. One well-known example is where one person sees the glass
of water half empty whereas another person will see it as
half
full.
Often we are caught up in the negative perspective of a situation,
usually because we are feeling bad emotionally in some way.
As a result,
we dig ourselves deeper and deeper into the quagmire of self-pity or
feelings of powerlessness and defeat.
Sometimes, when relating our sad story to a close friend, and they
identify the opportunity or learning in the situation, we are suddenly
jogged into a more positive space where we can now see the possibilities
and options that were there all along but had been
blocked by our
negativity.
Reframing Is a skill that is brought into the
Life Coaching & Holistic Counseling
relationship and is designed to support you in opening up to unlimited
possibilities thinking.
Rapport is that feeling of resonance with another person. It’s when
we feel safe, secure and open to another; when we willingly go out of our
way to help and support them.
Being in tune, or on the same wavelength, or on the same page with
someone else creates a win-win relationship. When this happens
spontaneously, it is a gift. Sometimes, however, we might wish for this
feeling of bonding or closeness to another person in order to negotiate a
complementary partnering or agreement as in a business situation.
Being life coached
and counseled in learning this craft can immediately elevate you to the
next level of success, both personally as well as professionally.
According to some
experts, 93% of our communication with others is
non-verbal. This can include posturing, breathing, eye movements, voice
tempo and pitch, and language pacing.
It is believed that we unconsciously like someone when we
perceive him or her to be just like us.
Using instant rapport skills with
integrity can influence the unconscious mind of the other person to
believe we are just like them–leading them into a desire to assist us in
our endeavors–even if you don’t even like them.
This model was the foundation for
the development of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) back in the early
1970s by
John
Grinder, PhD,
and
Richard
Bandler, PhD.
In Conclusion
The preceding techniques are only a small sampling of
the many dozens that are available from me for your emotional healing, personal
growth. and development.
Most of them are for self-use with only minimal
instruction needed. With some thoughtful and experienced combining of two
or more, there can often be dramatic results.
These Magical Toolbox tools are in addition to the many other Life Coaching & Holistic Counseling services I
offer. Examples include optional intensive homework with a variety of
forms for your advancement, deep listening, powerful questions, truth
telling, compassion, possibility thinking, and accountability to mention
just a few.
Please feel free to ask me about any techniques you’ve
heard about or anything listed here. I will be happy to share and discuss
with you whatever you are interested in.
Thank you for reviewing the information on this
website. I’d love to hear from you!
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